Abuse

 Sound Number 76

 Description of sound

Following close on the heels of the Abandonment sounds, the program for  Abuse which fits very well with the  abandonment program came about through a request from a client of “can you do something about the issues, memories  and feelings of expectation of abuse”.

Again these incredibly powerful sounds flow back down the time line of life and release and negate issues, thoughts, feelings and fears of abuse on many levels.

We may never have experienced abuse, yet have an expectation of having  it in our lives.

And abuse comes in many forms, the withdrawing of love is one form which many people suffer from without ever recognising it as abuse.

Sound Length 8.11minutes

How this sound came about

Although this sound came about through the request of a client it was an issue which had long been familiar to me. Growing up in a cold sterile and emotionally unloving family environment, yet one which provided the best that money could buy, I learnt early not to expect  love.

Then when I found myself in an incredibly physically, mentally, and emotionally abusive relationship during my twenties, I accepted the excuses that it was all “my fault” as I didn’t know any other way.

When I commented to one of my younger sisters some years ago that we had come from what could be described as an “abusive family” she was horrified and has hardly spoken to me since.

To another younger sister I can comment that, “considering the family environment we grew up in it’s a wonder that we are as nice as we are”. To which she agrees.   So thanks Alison, for being my sister.

Comment from Susan - Since working with the sounds, I now realise the subtleties of abuse and again a lot of abuse is derived from the way in which a person perceives a situation.  This is particularly evident in family or work situations, whereby the same situation or circumstance can provide vastly different reactions to the seemingly same event.  I have also noticed the difference in perceptions between the different generations to certain social issues or just in the way we interact with one another today.  What might pass for perfectly acceptable behaviour and language in one group can easily hurt and offend another - and can be sometimes seen as a type of abuse.  I guess my point is, these more subtle perceptions of abuse are very much in the eye of the beholder and so must be dealt with from their perspective.  Usually the sounds that come up in tandem with this sound are worthiness, deserving, self acceptance, blame shame and guilt and grief and loss.  Even the most seemingly minor of incidents can profoundly affect an individual depending upon their state and their vulnerability at the time.  Something to keep in mind when interacting with people I think, choose your moment when discussing things of a sensitive nature and be ever mindful of the phrase 'timing is everything'. 

Availability of this sound

Available through a trained The Sounds from Source practitioner consultation 

Combinations of use with other sounds

Balance, Meridian, Meridian Memory Blockages, Genetic Memory, Genetic Blueprint, Practitioner Intention Statements, Freedom, Unworthiness, Deserving, Self Acceptance, Trust and Faith, Abandonment, Encodement Grids, Encodement Survival, Conceptual Blueprint.